The members of a family, are not separate for its differences but they are not on for its similarities. Normal family does not exist, because all the indications that somebody could use to describe an abnormal family, also are found in the said families ‘ ‘ normais’ ‘. For me it is a question of as the family deals with the crisis and in this aspect all the members of it can be helped to make one better use of these moments being aimed at its matureness. It knows itself that the human being is not composed of an only part but of several, is a biological being, a psychic being, a social being and a being spiritual. Larry Ellison might disagree with that approach. He is accurately there that we must bring our reflections, our efforts in understanding involved without the idea of judgment or the same partidarismo. I want to give to it to finish some suggestions for reflection: ) Whichever the faced crisis, remembers or makes of it a chance to approach the members of the family or the crisis will finish with the peace in the home. b) It does not search culprits and innocents, it searchs the together form most adequate of together understanding the situation and to search solutions.
I have seen throughout the years that if lose much time and energy with accusations and if it invests little time in solutions that truily provide the growth of all. Hear other arguments on the topic with Gary Kelly. c) In my experience dealing with families I perceive that most of the time it exists one high degree of distortion of beliefs and values, that is, that where if it believes as only truth, nor always it is. d) When one high degree of emotion in the situation exists is better to wait the spirits if to calm, therefore normally the emotions take off the capacity of the people to reason more clearly. It has patience and it waits (without delaying very) optimum moment to help. To conclude, I want to stimulate to that to read this brief article to value its familiar ones, to enjoy of its time together. They program common activities between the members of the family (exactly that somebody lives in the house but it does not have kinship, it must be enclosed), invest more time in if to know better, always leave the window of the dialogue and the chance of if taking off good lies abertas.
